I’m really weird about things meant to “humanize” sex workers like “yeah, she’s a stripper, but she’s also a med student with a 4.0 GPA so don’t judge her” like, okay, so, and there’s someone in that same club who dropped out of high school and is a teenage mom, does that mean she’s lesser?
Yeah that has always rubbed me the wrong way. Sex workers should treated with respect like human beings because….they’re human beings not because they have college degrees or a high GPA.
that you don’t really want to move where you wanted to move before? I’m really trying to sell Knoxville, TN to my fiance and I’m not sure how to do it. There are better job opportunities there, the cost of living is cheaper, plus I would be living where most of my best friends are. But I feel like if I start off the convo with something about how all of my best friends/family are there, it might sound selfish. Also, I don’t want him to be miserable somewhere where I know I would be happy. I want us both to be happy wherever we move.